Consider me as waving the flag of realism in a world that is currently be turned on its head by political correctness and other nonsense.

I identify as a human, and while at risk of being trolled as transphobic, my gender is female.

My pronouns are whatever YOU would like to use to address me. However, a polite approach is more likely to get a reply than a rude one.

"Manners maketh man.", and I don't get upset by that apparent gender bias. Manners maketh everyone else too.